Just getting started with homeschooling or Internet homeschooling? Here are a few tips to make your first year of homeschooling go smoothly.

First, pat yourself on the back. You have made the decision to take your children’s education into your own hands. It takes courage and commitment to your family to make that decision. Can you hear me applauding from there.

Second, relax. It’s not as hard as you think! You taught your children to walk, talk, tie their shoes, etc.You certainly have more dedication and love for your child than any professional teacher, so you are light years ahead already! To borrow a phrase from a home improvement center commercial, “You can do it, we can help.”

Third, join a local homeschool group. Lean on the collective wisdom of those who have gone before you. Parents who have homeschooled for a long time are usually willing to help newcomers get started. The group will also provide a way for your family to interact with others who share your commitment to educating your children at home.This is a big help if you have limited or no support from extended family. (Trust me, in six months, grandma will be singing your praises for homeschooling your children. Results will work far better than any persuasive measures on your part.)

Fourth, choose a curriculum. Are you surprised this was not first? The curriculum you choose is a tool to help you educate your children, so be its master, not its slave. Model your homeschool around your family values and lifestyle, not around the curriculum.

Which one should you choose? That depends on your needs. Here are a few key points to consider.

Can you purchase more than one level for each student, such as fourth grade reading and fifth grade math for your fifth grader who struggles with reading? If the answer is no, choose a different provider. Flexibility and individualization is what makes homeschooling work so well. Don’t sacrifice flexibility for the convenience of a pre-packaged deal.

Can you purchase the assistance of a teacher if you need it? For some, this may not be important. Others like the safety net of a teacher guiding them through uncharted waters. Both options have value, so a provider with both options is a plus. If you choose a program with a teacher, ask others using the program if they are happy with it. Some programs are very rigid and similar to enrolling in a physical school. Make sure the program will still allow you the flexibility you need as a family.

Do you want to purchase all of your curriculum items from one provider, or do you want to pick and choose from several providers? Both choices work, but only you know what will work well for you.

What is their return/refund policy? Try not to lock yourself into a long term commitment, especially for your first year.You want to be able to switch gears and try something else if it does not work out as you hoped.

Is it affordable? There are some fantastic programs out there for reasonable prices, and there are programs that cost as much as an elite private school. Higher price does not always equal higher quality Many homeschool families are single income families, so making your dollar stretch can be critical in your decision making.